Showing posts with label tags. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tags. Show all posts

Tuesday, 3 June 2008

Tagged...

Julia over at MarmaladeKiss tagged me with this meme. I have given it a lot of thought and decided to go for it...The first question is very difficult, but I thought it was an opportunity to get some more about me and Tom in writing. Sorry if it makes for depressing reading.


I have to answer 6 questions about myself. At the end of the post, I then tag 6 people and post their names, then go to their blogs and leave them a comment, letting them know they’ve been tagged and asking them to read my blog. Then, I must let the person who tagged me know when I’ve posted my answers.


What was I doing ten years ago - 1998


10 years ago I was trying to come to terms with what had happened to my life. Tom had been in rehab. for 8 months following a catastrophic brain injury that had left him profoundly disabled the previous June. He was at The Children's Trust in Surrey, miles away from me at home and I was trying to juggle being with him and looking after No2, who was 20 months old. And being a wife. That bit got lost and their Dad and I separated 10 years ago this month too. I was living out of a bag, often in nurses accommodation and spending huge amounts of time on the M25. No2 was being hoicked around from pillar to post to whoever could look after him while I spent what days I could learning how to look after my child. Tom's medical needs were high and I was taught how to care for him again by a team of people to whom I will be forever grateful. I could reel off a list of Tom's 'problems' but maybe a meme isn't the right place. Tom remained in rehab. for 18 months, having been in hospital for 2 years altogether, before he came home again.



5 things on my to do list for today



  1. Photograph my irises before they get ruined in this continual rain...

  2. Make a banana cake with the brown bananas lurking in my fridge (I know, I know, you shouldn't keep bananas in the fridge...)

  3. Get the ironing board out

  4. Take No2 to the dentist

  5. Finish hand-sewing the binding on Urban Garden Quilt

Snacks I enjoy



  • Green and Black's Maya Gold...may have mentioned this before.

  • Caramel flavour Snack-a-Jacks

  • Maoam stripes (is that how you spell it?)

  • Dried apricots (but have to be M&S's, they're nice and squidgy)

Things I would do if I was a billionaire


The usual I suppose - pay off mortgages etc. Buy somewhere to live out of London with a wonderful garden, big enough for more chickens and maybe an alpaca to keep the foxes away. I don't really dream about lots of money because I know that at the end of the day it's not that important. But we would love a hot tub out on the deck!


Places I have lived


Very boring - only London, I'm afraid!


6 people I want to know more about



  1. Dottycookie

  2. Jolly Hocky Sticks!

  3. Driftwood

  4. Little Cotton Rabbits

  5. Domesticali

  6. Quilt while you're ahead

Sorry, ladies! Only if you fancy it!



Wednesday, 26 March 2008

Tagged...

I've been tagged by The List Writer to answer the following questions:

Why I started my blog ?

As I said in my first ever post, I stumbled into Blogland innocently enough and pretty soon I found myself hooked. After several weeks of lurking, I decided to join in. I was way out of practice in the writing department and having decided to go back into full-time education, I thought it might be a gentle start into the putting down of words. It has also been a revelation in how much pleasure there is to be found in sharing the good and not so good parts of my life. I've always found writing quite cathartic and although the subject matter these days is very different, I find it very therapeutic.

How I came up with the name of my blog?

Dragonflies are my thing! Blogger allowed me to have the title but not the URL, hence the dragonfliesandchickens bit - that was a quickly thought-up thing to get me on my way! I did look up to see what the Dragonfly blogspot was all about and was disappointed to find it defunct now, and not at all crafty...

Do my friends and family know about my blog? What do they think of it?

None of my family know that I blog. They aren't very computer-minded. I've told a couple of friends that I blog, but I've not given any details for them to track me down. I guess if they found me off their own back, that's fine. No2 kind of acknowledges what I'm doing when I'm in front of my screen, but doesn't really show that much interest (to me, anyway!)

How do I write my posts?

I'll usually write a post to share something that I've done or made. More recently, to mark a particular event. I like to think of my blog as a journal or diary of my life. I like to include lots of photographs, so I suppose it's a bit of a glorified photo album, but with much more written detail. I don't find it takes too long to write once I get going and I've learnt that sometimes it's quicker to upload the photos one at a time rather than 4 or 5 at once.

Ever had a troll or had to delete unkind comments?

No, I've never had either. I've only had one spammy comment, so I've been pretty lucky.

Do I check my stats? Do I care who/how many read my blog? Do I try to increase traffic?

I've never thought of checking my stats, (not really sure how I'd do that) but I've just added a site meter and the visitor map thingy after spotting them on other blogs I read. I was surprised to see that this is my 51st post and no, I don't really do anything consciously to increase traffic.

What I like and dislike about blogging?

I'm always delighted to read the comments that get left and am trying to reply to them all as quickly as I can. I love the inspiration that comes from reading other blogs and the sense of community that comes with it. The down-side, as others who have been tagged with this Q & A have said, is the ridiculous amount of time that I now spend reading blogs - it is highly addictive. I have really had to restrict the amount of blogs that I read daily; the list on my side-bar is nowhere near representative of my favourites list! Maybe once a week I dip into the rest of them, and I'm mainly a lurker there! I also get really frustrated when Blogger doesn't honour the layout I spend (too much) time faffing about with. The perfectionist in me stamps its feet!

Hmmm, who to tag next? I think I'll send it winging over to the other side of the planet, to Kirsty at two lime leaves, who always makes me smile!

To end with a photo, this is one for the record...Easter snow!
I've just wasted the best part of an hour trying to make an Easter mosaic, but the site's not having any of it! Grrrr...